My friend Salvador Dalí once said, “There are some days when I think I'm going to die from an overdose of satisfaction.”
He was always a bit over the top, and I imagine he was probably talking about his art which he believed was absolutely superior to anyone alive. But I think about this quote a lot. Have you ever felt that satisfied?
We live most of our lives in a state of dissatisfaction. And when we achieve some measure of satisfaction, we’re off to seek the next thing. We so rarely stop to even register joy or satisfaction.
I’ve written about happiness and joy before in past blogs. Surviving a pandemic, surviving cancer, and writing a book about happiness being stolen from the world (the first draft has been turned in to my editor!) has made this a topic more on my mind in recent years. When I’m feeling down, or like the world is flipping me off, I try to take a step back and remind myself of all the good things. They pretty much always outweigh the bad; it’s just that the bad often feels weighty enough to make one forget the good things.
So, this post is one of summer joy, reminding me, and sharing with you, some of the things that make me feel satisfied or bring me happiness.
We’re going to start with nectarines. And in particular, white nectarines. Last summer when I was going through all the cancer awfulness, I changed my eating habits completely. I was so glad for the bounty of summer fruits and vegetables to help me make that transition easier. I was trying to find joy in small things, and nectarines at their peak of ripeness are absolutely heavenly. When they are at perfect ripeness, you really need to eat them over the sink. There is nothing more wonderful than the burst of flavor on the tongue, the juice running down my arm. At that moment, I am truly satisfied, although sometimes the satisfaction is fleeting enough that I reach for another nectarine.
Some nectarine recipes I want to try this summer:
Nectarine and Mozzarella Salad with Basil Vinaigrette
Nectarine, Pistachio, And Goat Cheese Salad With Honey Dijon Vinaigrette
I’ve been plotting a series of books partially set in Venice and so I’ve been diving into a bit of research. My character is an author working with a photographer on a coffee table book in 1988, so I’ve acquired a massive tome or two published near that timeframe with magnificent images of La Serenissma.
What I love about these books is that they are so timeless. Everything probably looks the same as two hundred years ago save some motorboats on the waterways now.
It may be a few months before I can find my way back to this impossible city, but one thing I can do is watch the live cams. Note, the live cams are especially wonderful during festivals and holidays!
I also just picked up the Peter Ackroyd history, Venice, Pure City. Those moments of a-ha! that I have when I find a little tidbit of history I can use in my books is one of true satisfaction, and often joy.
In 1973, Salvador Dalí published a cookbook, Les Diners de Gala, which features a slew of extremely difficult French recipes and a wild illustrations to accompany them. For my birthday last month, Joe snagged me another Dali plate. It’s one of twelve released in 1981 to commemorate the rerelease of the cookbook. I have two plates now, this one and one with his wild tower of crayfish. I love this plate and the weird little elephants serving up snacks.
SOME OF MY FAVORITE ‘GRAMS
Amy Sedaris has one of the best Instagrams. I love nearly everything she posts. It’s often sooo weird.
Disco Bambino posts Italian disco videos and they are AMAZING. Like this wonderfully irreverent one.
What brings you satisfaction? Or gives you joy? Leave me a comment and let me know!
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I am, like Oscar Wilde, “…always satisfied with the best.” Shame I rarely get it.
Get your book on top Crystal! Actually do what ya want, but In the Garden beats those others I bet : )